Wealthy gay men dating site
You’re up against thousands of other men with those same qualities online – and although first impressions count, other things do, too.See, gay millionaires are like straight millionaire men.
Seeking Arrangement.com, which deems itself "the world's largest sugar dating website," reportedly surveyed over 256,000 member profiles in an effort to determine the most eligible (and wealthiest) bachelors within the gay community.One client writes, “My mother always said, to my sister of course, you could fall in love with a rich man just as easily as a poor one.I must have been lurking somewhere in the background (probably braiding Barbie’s hair) because her very words came to mind when I saw an ad at the back of a gay magazine asking the question, ‘Do you want to date a gay millionaire?’ The idea intrigued me and I thought ‘What the Hell? ’ I was on the wrong side of 40 and it was painfully clear around my eyes when I smiled that I was not going to be the pretty one forever.” The Advocate took note of the Gay Millionaires Club and Jeremy Quittner posed this question to founder, Jill Kimmel-Hankoff: Can a service that promises to match eligible gay bachelors with men of means really result in true love?“It’s a real-life dating service for affluent gay men ‘who don’t have the time or the desire’ to find dates on their own.We’ve both seen it: A rich guy soiling his chances to find an intimate relationship, or really, any relationship, because he leads his conversations by directly flaunting his wealth. She quickly sees a guy who’s overcompensating by “showing off.” She sees a guy who doesn’t value himself.
While every other guy would kill to have his money, the rich guy directly hurts himself because of how he references his wealth, in his conversations. For the rich guy who doesn’t know better, this pattern repeats and worsens with each repetition.
She can’t get aroused or fall in real love with his money. I’m sure the women reading this would agree that those character traits are highly attractive in a boyfriend, partner, or husband. Say he leads the conversation with his wealth, and a woman reciprocates.
As opposed to valuing himself say, because of his traits that helped him create that wealth. It’s forgetting that it’s the man himself the woman must be attracted to. What does he do the next time he meets a quality woman? More talk of his money, his status, and his accomplishments. But even if not a direct money exchange, sure, showboating will attract some women.
So many will 'naturally' want to wed and rear kids, as this study elegantly shows." For more information on the report, click here.
If you poke around the website of the Gay Millionaires Club, you’ll find this review in the press tab.
Here’s the paradox: Making money requires personality traits that are desired by lots of women: Discipline. Any quality woman who hears this immediately runs for the hills.